Guided Touch sessions in my practice are inspired by Betty Martin’s 'Bossy Massage', serving as a powerful tool to enhance communication and assertiveness in voicing personal needs. The essence of these sessions lies not in the massage or touch itself, but in the empowering process of recognizing and articulating your desires, using the power of your voice to ask for what you want.

This practice is an active exercise in communicating what you want, setting boundaries, and expressing them clearly. It's designed to help break patterns of enduring or prioritizing a partner's needs over your own during sexual encounters. In a Guided Touch session, you, the receiver, are in absolute command. Every touch, movement, and progression happens only as per your request and guidance.

Establishing Safety and Boundaries:

• Setting Ground Rules: Before beginning, we discuss and establish clear ground rules to ensure your comfort and safety.

• Personal Boundaries: You have the freedom to set boundaries about staying clothed, designating off-limits areas, or any other preferences you have regarding the session.

• Negotiation and Consent: All boundaries are respectfully negotiated and consented to before we proceed, ensuring a space of mutual respect and understanding.

Throughout the session, you guide every aspect of the touch. This direct guidance ensures that the session aligns perfectly with your comfort level and preferences. This practice empowers you to reclaim agency over your body and experiences, enhancing your ability to communicate effectively in intimate situations.

Guided Touch sessions offer a unique opportunity to explore and assert your sexual autonomy.